Media Messages Affect Us
Dear Mr. Dad: I’m a new dad and have been reading to my baby. But I’ve started to notice that most of the parents in children’s books are moms. There are some books where dad is the main parent, but most of the time we’re not there at all. My wife says that the media... CONTINUE READING→
Abuse OF men BY women: It Happens, It Hurts, and It’s Time to Get Real About It
I’ve written a lot about male anger including two books, The Irritable Male Syndrome and Mr. Mean: Saving Your Relationship From the Irritable Male Syndrome and a recent article, “Are You Living With an Angry Man?” I recently received an email from Ann Silvers, author of Abuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, it Hurts, and It’s Time to Get Real About... CONTINUE READING→
Tech for Toddlers
Dear Mr. Dad: I’m thinking of giving my 18-month-old my old iPad. She loves playing with it and I think she should have her own. My husband disagrees. What do you think? A: I’d hold off for a while. There’s a lot of information out there on technology’s effect on children, but very little on toddlers... CONTINUE READING→
Pain Below, What Every Man Should Know
You’ve probably experienced an ache or two at some point in your life. Toothache. Backache. Shoulder pain. Ankle sprain. Pain is part of the human predicament. Like pimples, aches and pains come and go. But what happens when suddenly something pops up down there?
The Gift of Maleness Part 3: Fearfully Great
It’s difficult not to feel stressed and depressed when we reflect on the state of our world. Our political world is in disarray and extreme climate is seen throughout the country. Fires continue to burn throughout California. Here in Willits where I live we breathe the smoke every day from The Ranch Fire near Ukiah... CONTINUE READING→
Think American-Born Men’s Health Is Bad? Immigrant Men Have It Much Worse
By now, I’m sure you’ve heard the statistics on the state of health for American men—they suffer a higher death rate than American women, are less likely to go to the doctor, and generally lead females in the top causes of death in America. But largely lost among the chatter on the health of American-born... CONTINUE READING→
Gender vs. Sex. Yes, There Is a Difference
Dear Mr. Dad: My 13-year old son told my husband and me that his gender identity is “non-binary” and that he wants to start using different pronouns—“they” and “their” instead of “he” and “him.” We asked whether that means he’s gay, but he just laughed and said that there’s a big difference between gender identity... CONTINUE READING→
Why Men Ignore Migraines and Why They Shouldn’t
Anyone can suffer from migraines, but men are less likely to seek help. Unfortunately, migraine sufferers are at higher risk for suffering from other problems than the general population. The perception that a migraine is “just a headache” does a grave disservice to all sufferers but negatively impacts men most of all.
Nine Next Gen Men’s Health Problems that Need Solving
As I was preparing for our international fertility meetings, and being the guy I am who likes to think big and help others, I embraced this year’s theme: “Focus on the Next Generation.” And then my mind began to wander. If I were given stupidly large sums of money, where would I invest in men’s health... CONTINUE READING→
Why Most Liberal Media and Liberals Don’t Talk About Men’s Problems?
The #MeToo movement has drawn attention to much horrific male behavior and deservedly has received much coverage. The Kavanaugh hearings also brought forth a torrent of discussion of what is sometimes called toxic masculinity. Headlines and social media posts about sexism, sexual assault, and men’s general piggishness abound. The harmful effects of misogyny, male boorishness... CONTINUE READING→
