The Myths and Truths About Penis Size
I take care of men for a living and easily the most common question I’m asked is this: “While you’re down there Doc, can you tell me if I’m…you know…normal?” From a hot potato standpoint, I Iiken this question to when my wife asks me how she looks in a dress. Penile Mythology The popular culture... CONTINUE READING→
Why Is My Wife Always Mad at Me?
I’m an angry male. O.K., I’ve said it. There is a lot to be angry about. Gun violence continues. Too many of our children live in poverty. Our environment is deteriorating. We are heating the planet beyond its capacity to support human life. Our country is divided. The political system is broken. Families are falling... CONTINUE READING→
Eight Things Women Can Do to Get Men More Involved, part 1
Dear Mr. Dad: Before we had children, my husband and I talked about being equal partners around the house. But I find myself doing a lot more and 50%–especially since what he does do, he doesn’t do right. How can I get him to be more involve? A: For most couples with kids, one of the... CONTINUE READING→
Armin Brott and Dr. Bonhomme discuss father absence in the animal kingdom
Armin Brott MrDad.com Interviews Jean J. Bonhomme MD, MPH, Assistant Professor, Morehouse School of Medicine, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the National Healthy Start Association / Men’s Health Network, Fatherhood / Men and Boys Health conference, Washington, DC. video by MHNMedia
How Does Hollywood Handle Infertility?
You’re pretty familiar how movies deal with many of life’s biggest moments, right? Love, sex, marriage, kids, losing your job, becoming a princess or prince, winning in sports, battles, success and failure. But how do they handle infertility? I was asked this question by Insider magazine and really had to think about it. Taboo Topic The first thing that... CONTINUE READING→
Attention Must Be Paid: Warren Farrell and the Boy Crisis
Warren Farrell focuses on fathers, sons, and our need to truly love them I do understand, sadly, why men — and their real problems — don’t get the attention they deserve by the academy, the media, and government (what Michael Gurian calls “The Big Three” in his 2017 book, Saving Our Sons). But what I... CONTINUE READING→
What Your Therapist Never Taught You About the Absent Father Wound
I’m a therapist specializing in helping men and the families who love them. I’ve been seeing people for more than 40 years, but it has only been in recent years that I’ve come to recognize the importance of the absent father wound on the lives of men and women. When I was five years old, my mid-life... CONTINUE READING→
Signs That You’re a Good Parent–Even if You Think You’re Not
Dear Mr. Dad: Like a lot of parents, I do my best. But I can’t help but think that I could be doing better. How can I tell if I’m doing a good job or not? A: The fact that you think you’re not doing a good job and that you care enough to learn more... CONTINUE READING→
What Does the Semen Analysis Really Mean?
Ever hear of the Buddhist parable of blind men describing an elephant? The man facing the elephant describes it as thick like a snake. The man who grabs its large floppy ear suggests that the creature is fan-shaped. The man who holds its leg insists that elephants are tree trunks and the one on its... CONTINUE READING→
Caring for the Parent to Help the Child
When your kid can’t breathe, nothing else matters. Being the parent of a child diagnosed with asthma is like going on a journey with little idea where you are headed. Asthma is a disease that changes across the course of a day, a year, and a lifetime. Your child’s symptoms may get better in the... CONTINUE READING→