Category: Well-being

Swipe Fatigue and the Friendship Gap: Why Dating Apps Don’t Fix Men’s Loneliness

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This essay argues that dating apps, while promising unprecedented access to potential partners, are poorly suited to reducing men’s loneliness and may instead exacerbate it by replacing meaningful social infrastructure with rapid, evaluative selection. Drawing on research from social psychology, sociology, and public health, the author explains that durable relationships depend on “friendship markets”—environments with repeated interaction, shared purpose, and social permission for vulnerability—which have eroded for men as workplaces, civic groups, and community institutions have declined. Dating apps function as closed markets that promote choice overload, rejection mind-sets, swipe fatigue, and burnout, exposing men to repeated, cumulative rejection without opportunities for relational repair or gradual connection. Evidence shows these dynamics can undermine well-being, increase withdrawal, and fail to address men’s broader needs for friendship, identity, and belonging. The essay concludes that men’s loneliness is not a personal failure or an algorithm problem, but a structural one, and that meaningful progress requires rebuilding real-world, activity-based, and community-centered friendship markets rather than relying on dating apps to solve a problem they were never designed to address.Continue reading

Masculinity, Health, and the Power of Understanding: Why Dr. Smiler’s Books Make an Impact on the Conversation

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This blog highlights how Andrew Smiler brings clarity and balance to today’s conversations about masculinity through Is Masculinity Toxic?: A Primer for the 21st Century and The Masculine Self (7th Edition). Together, these books offer accessible language and evidence-informed insight into how masculine norms shape health, behavior, and relationships, moving the conversation beyond sound bites toward understanding that supports healthier outcomes for men and boys.Continue reading

Boys Falling Off the Health-Care Map: And How We Keep Them Connected

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This blog, reposted from Dominick Shattuck, PhD’s Substack with permission from the author, examines new research showing how many boys quietly disengage from preventive health care during the transition from adolescence to young adulthood. Drawing on findings from the Journal of Adolescent Health and decades of men’s health research, the piece explores how masculinity norms, low perceived risk, structural barriers, and unwelcoming health systems contribute to boys “falling off the health-care map.” It highlights why this early disengagement matters for long-term health outcomes and outlines practical, evidence-informed strategies for building health systems that keep boys connected to care before preventable problems become lifelong challenges.Continue reading

Beyond “Man Up”: Confronting the Hidden Crisis in Men’s Mental Health

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This blog examines why men’s mental health is often overlooked and how societal expectations and media stereotypes pressure men to hide their emotions. Many men struggle silently due to norms like “boys don’t cry,” leading to difficulty expressing feelings and avoiding help. Through personal insight and real stories, the blog highlights the power of vulnerability and the need for empathy, open conversations, and support. It encourages readers to help create a culture where men feel safe to speak up and seek care.Continue reading

Merry Christmas from Men’s Health Network: Honoring Our Legacy, Renewing Our Mission

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A Christmas message from Men’s Health Network reflecting on a year of progress, honoring a legacy that helped shape the men’s health movement, and recommitting to an empathy-driven mission focused on education, prevention, advocacy, and community outreach, so that men can live longer, healthier lives and remain present for the families and communities that depend on them.Continue reading

How Better Sleep Can Sharpen Cognitive Performance at Work

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The blog “How Better Sleep Can Sharpen Cognitive Performance at Work” emphasizes the vital connection between quality sleep and professional success. It explains that sleep is not merely rest, but an active neurological process that rejuvenates the brain, enhances focus, and supports decision-making, creativity, and emotional stability. Poor sleep, common among busy professionals—especially men—leads to fatigue, low motivation, and reduced cognitive sharpness. A key factor in achieving restorative sleep is mattress quality: a supportive, breathable, and comfortable mattress promotes proper body alignment and uninterrupted rest, enabling the brain to complete its essential sleep cycles. The article offers practical tips such as maintaining a consistent sleep schedule, limiting caffeine, and managing stress to improve sleep hygiene. Ultimately, it argues that investing in better sleep—and the right mattress—is not just about health but also about career longevity, as a well-rested mind fosters productivity, innovation, and leadership in the workplace.Continue reading

November: A Month to Focus on Men’s Health and Community

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November is a pivotal month for raising awareness about men’s health and community well-being. From Alzheimer’s and diabetes to epilepsy, tobacco use, and sexual health, each observance offers an opportunity to take action and encourage preventive care. Men’s Health Network emphasizes that health doesn’t take a season off—simple habits, early conversations, and empathy-driven outreach can make lasting change. This month’s blog highlights national campaigns like the Great American Smokeout, National Diabetes Month, and Impotence Education Month, alongside Illinois’ groundbreaking creation of a Division of Men’s Health. It also spotlights the growing Men’s Health Ambassadorship Program—ordinary people doing extraordinary work to close the Lifespan Gender Gap and build healthier communities. Through awareness, advocacy, and everyday choices, November reminds us that improving men’s health is a shared mission that benefits families, workplaces, and society as a whole.Continue reading

Male Suicide and the Lifespan Gender Gap

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October is National Depression and Mental Health Awareness and Screening Month, a time to bring attention to the silent crisis affecting men and boys. In this blog, Men’s Health Network highlights the deep connection between suicide and the Lifespan Gender Gap, reminding us that men are four times more likely to die by suicide than women. Contributor Dr. Andrew Smiler examines the data, cultural pressures, and life circumstances, such as loss of work or relationships, that contribute to male suicide rates. The piece urges readers to break the silence, check in with the men in their lives, and remember that reaching out for help is a sign of strength. Together, we can close the gap and remind the world that mental health is men’s health.Continue reading

Simple and Effective Ways Fathers Can Support Healthy Habits in Kids

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Fathers play a powerful role in shaping their kids’ lifelong health. By modeling good habits—like eating balanced meals, staying active, keeping a sleep routine, managing emotions, and building positive relationships—dads can make healthy living natural, fun, and lasting.Continue reading

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