Attention Must Be Paid: Warren Farrell and the Boy Crisis
Warren Farrell focuses on fathers, sons, and our need to truly love them I do understand, sadly, why men — and their real problems — don’t get the attention they deserve by the academy, the media, and government (what Michael Gurian calls “The Big Three” in his 2017 book, Saving Our Sons). But what I... CONTINUE READING→
What Your Therapist Never Taught You About the Absent Father Wound
I’m a therapist specializing in helping men and the families who love them. I’ve been seeing people for more than 40 years, but it has only been in recent years that I’ve come to recognize the importance of the absent father wound on the lives of men and women. When I was five years old, my mid-life... CONTINUE READING→
Signs That You’re a Good Parent–Even if You Think You’re Not
Dear Mr. Dad: Like a lot of parents, I do my best. But I can’t help but think that I could be doing better. How can I tell if I’m doing a good job or not? A: The fact that you think you’re not doing a good job and that you care enough to learn more... CONTINUE READING→
What Does the Semen Analysis Really Mean?
Ever hear of the Buddhist parable of blind men describing an elephant? The man facing the elephant describes it as thick like a snake. The man who grabs its large floppy ear suggests that the creature is fan-shaped. The man who holds its leg insists that elephants are tree trunks and the one on its... CONTINUE READING→
Caring for the Parent to Help the Child
When your kid can’t breathe, nothing else matters. Being the parent of a child diagnosed with asthma is like going on a journey with little idea where you are headed. Asthma is a disease that changes across the course of a day, a year, and a lifetime. Your child’s symptoms may get better in the... CONTINUE READING→
The Seven Things That Make A Man Feel Loved
There is a saying that we teach what we want to learn. I suspect it may be equally true that we write about issues most important in our lives. I grew up as an only child in a single parent-family. My father was gone by the time I was five years old. My mother had... CONTINUE READING→
What Teens Need from Dads, part 3
Over the past two weeks, we’ve been talking about some of the many things teens need from their dad (and/or mom). While this is the conclusion of our series, in reality, there’s no end to what our children need from us—or to how many times you might have to satisfy what looks like the same... CONTINUE READING→
HIFU Procedure Keeps High School Ref in the Game after Prostate Cancer Diagnosis
If I could have blown a whistle and called a foul in the doctor’s office I might have done it. But I wasn’t out on the court enjoying my favorite hobby: refereeing basketball games in and around the greater Boston area. Instead, I was trying to make sense of what the doctor was telling me.... CONTINUE READING→
Ebola, Zika, Sex and You
What’s happened with the recent outbreaks of Ebola and Zika? You might be a tad interested, given that Ebola kills 50% of those infected and Zika wreaks havoc on the newborn children of pregnant moms. Much like HIV, these bugs are two of the heavy hitters in the world of viruses. And they are all transmitted through sex. Great.... CONTINUE READING→
Deciding Between Chiropractic Care or More Invasive Spinal Treatments
If you have an acute or ongoing problem with your spine or other parts of your body, your first order of business is to get rid of the pain or discomfort and get back to your daily routine. Chiropractic care is always an option, and can provide some immediate and ongoing pain relief, but it... CONTINUE READING→